Saturday, January 12, 2008

Women can not become Men

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Shahrukh Khan would not mind if mobbed, embraced, drooled over and kissed by young girls, Koena Mitra lodges an FIR if one of her fans holds her by her waist.
Akshay Kumar would willingly allow a young girl to give him a bear-wild hug, Mallika will ask a man that has he taken permission from his wife before coming to dance with her.
A male singer gets excited as he accepts a kiss on his cheek by his female co-singer but the female singer cries foul when the male goes a step further and gave it back on her lips. She did not get excited and tried to go a step further.
A young Indian Idol male competitor is excited and blushed when a young girl came up on the stage and kissed her all of a sudden, an incident other way round would have caused havoc. The boy would have been placed behind bars.

Why? Are men not equal?

If men enjoy adam-teasing then why can’t women enjoy eve-teasing? If men can enjoy a sex forced on him why can’t women enjoy the same? Come on if you want to become men, if you want to party late night like men, if you want to drink and go out of control like men, if you want to attract opposite sex like men, then like men do not complain and rather enjoy like men. Do not expect men to behave like women just because you have started behaving like men. Men enjoy and hence never complain. It is for this reason that men put efforts to invite attention of the opposite sex and try to attract them. Men would like the girls to go wild. Men feel and understand the meaning of getting physically hurt but can not understand the meaning of feeling sexually hurt.

To me it seems that problem arises for men who think that women have now become like men. They start behaving with a girl just as they would have liked the girl to behave with them. All biologically correct men would enjoy if they are subjected to any kind of sexual abuse (without getting physically hurt) by young wild girls. For them their fantasies would come true. They are mistaken by girls who do try to sexually attract men (like men) but complain (unlike men) when they go wild.

Just imagine if Mikka had gone to the police to complain just after getting kissed, if Indian Idol competitor had slapped the girl who kissed him, Shahrukh had lodged an FIR and Akshay with a group of grey-haired middle aged male friends had gone to sit on dharna at jantar mantar to lodge their protest on these incidents saying this world is of females and they consider males as mere sexual objects. Fact is they did not.

Awake! These are no issues for men, you would remain women till you are going to make these issues and try to make us behave like women.

Don’t complain. Don’t protest. Don’t seek women-like protection. Let there be nothing called eve-teasing just as there is nothing like adam-teasing. Let there be nothing defined as ‘rape’. A bad sexual behavior should be punished but it should be equated with an offence just as slapping or beating. If you can do this you possess an important ingredient to become men. If this is not possible for you then you must understand that you are better than males, and you should not downgrade yourself to become men.

In the best interest to the society please remain women. Never think of becoming men. Instead of trying to come down the standard to become men, take up the task to shake male’s conscience to lift them up from behaving men-like. If you do this you would get support by all whom you would like to correct because they know themselves better than you know them.